With eager focus and passionate attention
That would be, perhaps, a hint of my personal creed in regards to sex. In regards to oral sex, it is even more apparent. Indeed, in my less than humble opinion, it forms the entire basis of what cunnilingus needs to encompass. Without eagerness, there is no anticipation for what is yet to come. Without focus, one is only marking time. Without passion, why be having sex at all? Without attention, one is not learning.
Mistake me not, this "motto" translates to more than just devouring a woman into carnal bliss. Try taking this approach in regards to your relationship with a Significant Other, you might be amazed at how much you discover. Should they reflect the philosophy as well, it is akin to an unseen cloud unveiling a tropical sun.
But that is tangential to what I wanted to write about tonight. Tonight I want sex. There is something indescribable about how it feels for me to be in a woman's body. The proximity of her body, so close the scent of her skin fills my perception. The play of her muscles as she moves against me, over me, around me. The surprisingly intense heat of her flesh suffusing me in waves as I move in and out of her. That astounding alchemy of her fluids allowing parts to glide with exquisite smoothness.
And yet, there is something sublime about letting my mouth take the lead in my savoring of her person. As much as I adore losing myself in the throes of passion, sometimes I want to be greedy. I want to concentrate completely upon my lover. I desire to distill my perceptions to just her without the (exceedingly decadent) distraction of my own body interacting in concert with hers. Instead, I can delight in letting my hands and mouth explore her contours.
It is a heady feeling, evoking responses from her as if her nerves were a symphony I was conducting for an audience of one, never to be exactly duplicated ever again. When I am engaged in cunnilingus, I feel a measure of accomplishment, of pride, unlike that of penetrative sex. When she gasps, it is because I specifically did something to elicit that gasp. I can pay long, lingering attention to just her, and not miss out on a precious second of it.
In addition, there is something fundamentally more intense. Her crotch is right fucking there, inches from the tip of your nose if not closer. The texture of her labia enriched by the feel of them on lips and tongue. Every small arch or roll of her hips, perhaps too subtle to feel during intercourse, is there to see or feel. No other time are you going to be so equipped to manipulate her clitoris with such precision. Should she orgasm through your attentions, you can feel it through your tongue, jaw, neck, fingers, perhaps shoulder. All of which will detect far more than hips and erection can.
Done as it should be, it's endlessly fun to do and who doesn't want their lover to feel utterly spoiled sexually.
4 Comments:
Wow - who was the lucky lady that got such glorious attention last night?
My advice for men looking for a “how to” on cunnilingus has always been: love it, or leave it.
I think you excelently described what it is to love it. Kudos!
Wonderful and sexy post. I wish all men shared the sentiment.
Yuuum. Such a different O to penetration or foreplay, I love it. And it feels so freeing when I am lucky enough to come across (or should that be 'on'?) a partner who loves it.
a recent shag spent 2 hours down there!! i came about 5-6 times. incredible fucken time!
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