Talking out one's ass.

Anal sex is almost main-stream. It's present in a wide variety of films. With the attitude of being outrageous and taboo, it's touted as being almost universally enjoyed.

Not by me however.

For one thing, it is not something that is visually appealing to me. It isn't repellant; it just doesn't do anything for me. My visual cortex does not link such images with my libido. It's somewhat but not quite sex when seen by me. I'm relatively confident this makes me a bit of a mutant. I'm sure some will consider me boring as well.

On the other, anal sex is not a regular part of my sexual repertoire. I'm definitely more enthusiastic about the commission of the act than I am about watching it. More on the giving end as opposed to the receiving, but still think it fun. My SO enjoys it. I have had partners in the past who like it.

However, it is not something offered to me very often if at all. For it to be enjoyable one needs control. One should not just force themselves in without care. That area is rather delicate and a lot of damage can be wrought through being inept. You also require the right angle. People vary on what feels good. What one person needs for entry may not match up with the other. And last but not least, the physical dimensions need to be right. Skinny is actually a benefit. It is to be desired that the partner's sphincter will accommodate the phallus. Very few people will appreciate having a presto-log driven through a key-hole. And so regardless of skill and attention, it can all come to naught.